IS MARRIAGE AN INCARCINATION FOR WOMEN?

In the era of women empowerment first it is needed to think over the issue of why only women need empowerment? That precisely indicates men are empowered and women need to be empowered. If men and women both are the creatures of god and if she characterizes as goddess than why she is secondary than men? best example can be seen in the in Indian society when a women get married she take it as a challenge and it is a phobia for many girls for many reasons. A man is always comfortable and continue his previous life. He lives in his parental home and a newly married girl has to adjust herself in the new environment. she is supposed to change her schedule and comfort level according to her in-laws home. She is compelled to choose the clothing, childbirth and career  according to their wish in majority of cases. She cannot enjoy food of her own taste, she cannot wear comfortable clothes in illness or summer, she cannot do friendship with the person of her own choices particularly males. she is not allowed to hangout  with her friends in the evening or night. she is not supposed to express her anger and even to articulate her feelings as well. In many cases she cannot spent time with her husband. At times husband refuses to accompany his wife in her family functions. She faces a tongue-tied situation. If the children are not civilized than all blame goes to a mother. At the time of marriage of her children, all decision is taken by the father. What ultimately happens...adjustments...sacrifices...and all. Is it all a fate of women in Indian society? does parents educate their daughter and make independent for these days only? It is full of agony when parents see her daughter as a divorcee,  separated, single and tortured.

India is not confined to metro cities, social media and mall cultures. It is much more than that which can be sensed through the B-towns, and small places. Is it feasible and tolerable for a man to adjust in her wife's home? cant we change the golden rule of  society? If is so, do a man tolerate that he would be restricted in sleeping, waking up, eating clothing and many more....IS A WOMAN NOT A HUMAN?